You want to win win the guys. Meaning surpassinig the guys. Win over proven yourself worth you are better than the guys. Then, you do those roller blades skills dance, vola! Lightly suggested, not over rushly over head....

You tell them in literacy. You proven them your money bank account.

You settle yourself environment how you make yourself lasting....eon.

One of those....you truly want it to proven, you are better than that guy. You don't want to spend the life with any guys, buddy together with your own gf, or parents groups. 

You being together with any guy, meaning a dedication. Never go sabotage that person or wishing ill one thought inside your mind, that one thing just you get jealous by, or the guy proven you....a low statue. You don't build yourself confident, you don't find your own exit, you keep using the verbal abuse harming in the wrong situation in the wrong time.

The guys? They leave all their heart, and soul and mind.