This society usually means, you married to that one person, its you and that one person's life. That is what I think!

Between that Eastern culture and the American culture, well, what do I look like, as if that discipline is none. 

I will tell you what it is. That one family household, cherish to hold, you have to make it a great money, for both to live on, sometimes they have family, or you are lucky, its the younger guy.  So your jobs.....originally when you getting married younger family household, its never look anywhere else, but to make it a great Pinterest these house fantasy, to that one guy you say the vow to.

Right? Or just when you could make it, you dissolve the vow the moment you see the exit? 

Why did you go to church doing that? you could go to the Buddhist temple doing that vow???