They say you don't have 氣質 You need to go to one of those Orchestra. A personal traits of some...upper styles of manners or airs that they breath, they look like a shaped manner person.

Are you Wing uncle of somebody?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7I8yNQg3rls

Do they mean, you have a cousin, and a uncle? I stuck, I cannot move. Not here....whatever I can see the TV.