You are a girl, that is a guy.....in the Ice Skating comic book.

Your handling process, let me guess....

Do you even talk to this person in your life? Like what did you say to that person? And....you cannot just find a way how to talk to a guy. How many guys did you ever opening your mouth and speaking a word?

Are that true sandwitch shop, or I imagine its a worsen situation? 

Most guys becasue their arena are much different when they seeing those higher male Order, they know from certain time, they practice their mirror skill opening up your language, like talking like a literate human. 

You only find out when you interview them, those interview committee, how soon they become a job, or become the door.