I think you starting with a 4 stove + a career planning, best....not the other way around. Stay more center yourself, to find yourself a way in life. Sometimes that independence how you go to the bathroom alone, will sound more like a plan

4 Stove and a career.

I am sure when you do becoming that good, you will be gather your own best friends without the guys or me. Your perfect new life. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8r0_drIaQtM