4 Stoves are not everything, I meant as a girl, you decently, capable to carry a guy, or someone, like your brother, a few day running in running out, a decent, sitting down, saving budget an emergency meal. But all around Asia, people can buy. They don't need to eat home.

When I saying, that some virtues very traditional views, meaning, that is a basic things you do.

Its best you finding something a good job, that you can sustain that living, or 

1. Carrying a trendy conversation with a guy.

2. Be friends with some professional, to join a networks for some causes, a next new niche, keep learning, keep that momentum fresh. Some people lock in, when they fallen the digital era, they refuse to learn. 

3. A women has some virtue in the 4 stoves, capable to deliver yourself, then you independently sought out some other means how you become finance independent. You don't need to cook anymore, because that will probably all you ....EVER dream in the end. Playing the PC monitor games.

4. Some disciplinary routes its only few belief, that might be a religion belief, that might be just being losing weight purpose, you have something you believing in life, other than laziness...okay? Your character when you talk will sound different, your peripheral how you seeing things and analyze people will feel different. Its not every words on venting, its when you get up and deliver?